Summary
The Golden Bachelor’s Theresa Nist may have won Gerry Turner’s final rose, butafter their split and her behavior in the aftermath, I believe she has a big ego just like Gerry. Competing for 72-year-old widower Gerry’s affections duringThe Golden Bachelorseason 1, Theresa was an early standout on the series. Celebrating her own birthday on the opening night of the season, Theresa connected with Gerry about her late husband and her grandchildren, building a foundation for their fast-paced relationship. Though Gerry and Theresa’s relationship was quick to form, it seemed like it could be something that was long-lasting.
Gerry and Theresa’s relationshipmay have had a better chance if they hadn’t immediately gone fromThe Golden Bachelorinto wedding preparations for theirGolden Weddingspecial. Rather than taking things slow and getting to know each other,Gerry and Theresa’s relationship remained public fodder forBachelorNationto watch when they were offered a live TV wedding special. The couple accepted and got started planning, bringing their families into the situation as they grew closer. Just a month after their relationship was made public to the rest of the world, Gerry and Theresa tied the knot on live TV.

While the couple seemed like they were ready to begin their lives off-camera together once the wedding festivities wrapped up, thingscontinued to be murky for Gerry and Theresaafter they married. Gerry was located in Indiana, where he’d purchased his dream home after retiring from the restaurant business, while Theresa was located in New Jersey, where her life and career were settled. After being unable to figure out a compromise on their living situation and struggling to connect despite their relationship finally being on their terms,Gerry and Theresa chose to divorce after just three short months of marriage.
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Theresa Thinks She’s More Famous & Important Than She Is
I believe thatthe allure and esteem of being on reality TV has led Theresa to become a big more self-important than she realizes. ThroughoutThe Golden Bachelorseason 1, Theresa and Gerry’s relationship was only one of the several that were featured on the series. While Theresa was a focal point, she wasn’t the onlyperson that Gerry was dating, and at times, she wasn’t the most interesting woman on the series. As her relationship with Gerry began to build, she got more of the spotlight.
After her televised love story, wedding, and the crumbling of her marriage, I believe that Theresa’s sense of self has changed drastically. In her most recent Instagram posts,Theresa has been sharing more about her life after the show, making it clear that there is a difference in the way people treat her, as well as in the way she finds herself accommodated. With a more favorable style of treatment in most social aspects of her life, Theresa believes she’s more important than she is.

Theresa Is Showing Off Her New Friendship With Leslie
ThroughoutThe Golden Bachelorseason 1, Theresa andGerry’s runner-up, Leslie Fhima, didn’t appear to have much of a relationship. When they did interact,many believed that their friendship was for the cameras, rather than something they uthentically wanted to build on. After Leslie was rejected by Gerry, the focus of her relationship with Theresa became less about their bond, and more about the common ground they had, in Gerry. This made it tough for them to build a bond while Theresa and Gerry were together.
AfterGerry and Theresa’s split, Theresa took some time before moving into a position where she was open for criticism. In a recent Instagram post, she shared about the trip she took to Minneapolis, Minnesota to visit Leslie and spend some time with her family. The pair seemed to spark a genuine friendship after their connections with Gerry had faded, which was interesting toBachelorNation. Seemingly trying to lengthen the life of theirGolden Bachelorfame,I feel the women have been using each other for clout.

Theresa Likely Married Gerry For Fame
While Theresa’s time onThe Golden Bachelormade it seem like she was genuinely interested in meeting and getting to know Gerry, their relationship became more about the fame it could bring them by the end. Prior to the announcement that the couple would get married on live TV, I was certain that they were actually happy together, butthe second a live wedding was planned, I felt like the relationship was for clout.While Gerry and Theresa enjoyed each other, they hadn’t taken any of the necessary steps to actually plan for a marriage ahead of time.
The couple hadn’t discussed or settled on a place to live after they were married, which should’ve been a huge red flag going intoThe Golden Weddingspecial forBachelorNation. The fact thatGerry and Theresa both used the idea of a sweet, second-act marriage to get viewers on their side and then threw it awaywhen it was inconvenient wasn’t the right move. Though Gerry usually gets flack about his ego, Theresa’s ego is just as large after appearing onThe Golden Bachelor.
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